Falling in love with eyes is easier, but you understand it with your ears!-~Sam
When I was
in class 6th I was a mad Salman Khan fan, then came Arjun Rampal, Milind
Soman, Muzamil Ibrahim, Rahul Khanna and many more. Then
in college I had this small poster of Beckham on my wall and he looked amazing!
One common thing about these guys is that they work out. They all look fit (LOOK)! I know none of them
is perfect but still they are doing something good with their body.
Liking a
guy: When a girl looks at a guy, few things run in her mind without her
knowledge. Female brain thinks in terms
of offspring. Will she like to have a kid who is exactly like this guy? If the
answer is yes she goes ahead. Then as they come to know each other, she thinks;
will she like her offspring to have these good/bad qualities? If the answer is
yes goes ahead. Then the question is, can she bear one more person exactly like
this one? If the answer is yes she will go ahead.
About the
girl who want to change the guy:
“Purpose of
love is not to change you but to improve you as a person”-~ Sam
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| Girl's thought process! |
If someone
is trying to change you even though you are good/right, she is not the one for
you. But if she is doing it for better, i.e., grooming you or improving you in
someway ..she is the one!
Take time
to understand!
Why do I
like the guys who work-out?
Well not
exactly the ones who work out but the ones who take time out for themselves,
take care of themselves. Because it is the sign that they care about themselves
and they love themselves J
“Only the
one who loves and cares about self can love someone else.” -~ Sam
One who is
not ‘happy’ alone cannot be happy with someone too.
So go out,
travel, work out, find time for yourself, love yourself and you will find love!
Cheers!!
Note : I'm chubby but I meditate, eat healthy, practice yoga, walk. When I say work-out I do not intend to say anything about shape, it is the wellness factor that matters.
too much good :) :)
ReplyDeleteThanks :)
Deletevery nice..very true and veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy superbly written..bravadooooooo sweetheart...awesome creation...
ReplyDeleteThanks :)
DeleteCheers!
Beautifully written, most important guys needs to realize taking care of themselves gives d confidence to many and to own. Everyone can't be salman but taking carE is more important
ReplyDeleteWell done
Exactly!
DeleteThanks :)
Cheers!!
very nicely written..and very true..
ReplyDeleteThanks Meenu!
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Aah awesome re...so very true .. you have clearly nailed the point that one who loves own self can only love others..cheers :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Appy:)
DeleteWese to we know working out is a task for guys too :P
Cheers!!
Hi Sneha,
ReplyDeleteI think You have a critic here !! I don't believe
“Only the one who loves and cares about self can love someone else.” -~ Sam
It's kind of a correct as well as wrong, It only depends when a person cares for self, less than caring for others, he becomes a social worker.
If he/she cares for his country more than self he becomes Patriotic.
It's a very well written blog, but I do not completely agree with the statement ! And looking forward to your upcoming blog,
Bye ,
Keep writing !
What is life critics :)
DeleteThanks for dropping by and commenting!
Perspectives differ and so it is okay if you think the other way..
Cheers!
Lots of love :-)
ReplyDeleteIts a well written piece. Its from a girl's point of view. I respect the perspective but cannot pass a judgement.
ReplyDeleteA few things I wish to state.
A. Love your self. if u dont love urself, dont expect others to do that
B. Take care of your body. Thats the only place u can live in. if u dont eat responsibly, dont exercise, then one day ur body will break down (part by part, organ by organ) and there will be no Undo button. No Control Z.
C. if u truly love someone - love him / her unconditionally - as he /she is and NOT as u would like him / her to be. There is no need to attempt changing anyone. if u really like 'change' pl change yourself. Everything will fall in place